But my secret is: even though I wish I could be thin, and that I could have the ease of lifestyle that I associate with being thin, I don’t wish for it with all of my heart. Because my heart is reserved for way more important things.
Why Not Me? is the second New York Times best-selling memoir written by American actress, comedienne and writer Mindy Kaling. Preceded by her first book “Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns), this book focused more on the success she’s gained over the years, how hard she worked for it and how she keeps herself grounded amidst all the fame.
In this book, Mindy shared some of her life experiences that have both tickled and touched my emotions. She’s written lengthy chapters dedicated to special people (ehemB.J. Novak-hem!) in her life and how they play big roles in it. She wrote about her work and how she juggles being the writer, executive producer and main star in a TV show with her name on it! Generally, the book is about the *real* life of a middle-aged successful woman and how she balance things from her love life, work life, her diet, and everything in between.
I might be a bit bias because I love Mindy Kaling so this review might be all about “I JUST LOVE HER TO DEATH”! I love her character in The Office (my all-time fave) and loved her even more when I found out that she also writes/directs some episodes for the show. This book is essential to all the girls out there who have ever doubted (still do!) their abilities and who immaculately feel the pressure from the society to fit in a certain mold. Mindy never fail to make me laugh and inspire all at the same time. I love that she continue to be an image of an independent woman who is not afraid to face her flaws and flaunt them, if needed.
I love how she’s repeatedly pointed out in this book that HARD WORK PAYS! If I would sum this book up, it would have to be “How Mindy Kaling Worked Hard For Everything She Got Now And Why You Should Too”. I believe it’s important to earn the things you have in your life through hard work and she is a living example to that. She’s also written that no matter how good you have it, it’s cool to want more. See? The tone of this review is all “I love her blah blah..”
I’d give it a 3 out of 5 stars for no matter how I love Mindy, I felt that this book was just a mere continuation of her first memoir. I felt that the stories she’s written here were extensions of the first book. In spite of it all, I still love her to death! She will forever be one of my favorite persons in Hollywood.